MINISTRY EXPRESSIONS

One calling. Many expressions.

Through encounters, empowerment, honest conversation, community, celebration and outreach, this ministry exists to teach, train and facilitate transformation — helping people rise and take charge of God’s purpose for their lives.

MINISTRY EXPRESSIONS

Many expressions of one calling.

Every expression carries the same heart — to teach, train and facilitate transformation for lost royals back to God’s royal family, and to help women rise and take charge of their God-given purpose.

Moments with God
Encounter Meeting

Moments with God

The vision is to encourage believers to rekindle their passion for God's presence. A day away from your normal home environment to spend quality time with the Lord in an environment of uncensored worship, prophetic message, declarations and prayers. A safe place for deeper spiritual connection and refreshing.

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Mentoring Moments with PR
Day Mentoring Programme

Mentoring Moments with PR

A day mentoring programme with Pastor Ruth where she teaches core elements of personal growth and development. It has been specially designed to connect first with the online students of the Restart You & Win Academy, and to serve as a taster for potential new students.

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Help! I'm a Pastor's Wife
Podcast

Help! I'm a Pastor's Wife

Honest, unfiltered conversations about life behind ministry — the joy, the weight, the lessons and everything in between. Real women, real talk, real grace, for every woman carrying responsibility in ministry.

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First Ladies Haven
Community for Pastors' Wives

First Ladies Haven

A safe, private room for wives in ministry to be known, refreshed and encouraged. No masks and no performance — just honesty, prayer and friendship with other women who understand the weight and the gift of the call.

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Freedoms Ball
Night of Celebration & Inspiration

Freedoms Ball

A glitz and glamour night of encouraging change through celebration and inspiration, where women are challenged by the inspirational stories of triumph shared by the speakers — spurring them on to make their life count and leave a lasting legacy.

Event Details
First Ladies Haven A PRIVATE PLATFORM FOR FIRST LADIES

First Ladies Haven

A haven for wives in ministry — a place to be known, refreshed, restored and refocused. No masks and no performance, just honesty, prayer and friendship with other women who carry the same call.

Connect Meet first ladies who understand both the gift and the weight of the call.
Refresh Room to breathe, worship and be renewed away from everyone else’s expectations.
Restore Prayer, honest conversation and gentle care for the whole woman.
Refocus Leave with a clearer vision and a heart that is ready to run again.
First Ladies Haven — connect, refresh, restore and refocus
WhatsApp QR code to join the First Ladies Haven UK group

Join the Haven UK group

Scan this code with your phone’s WhatsApp camera to join the First Ladies Haven UK WhatsApp group.

Outreach Arm of the Hadassah Network

The Mercy Project

The Mercy Project outreach

This is an outreach arm of the Hadassah Network to young widows, widowers and their children, and to the vulnerable elderly. It began in 2004 and since then we have supported many young widows who are now rehabilitated back into normal life. At present we carry 35 young widows across the UK and Nigeria, and we are extending our reach to vulnerable elderly in Nigeria with medical outreaches, food and wellbeing outreaches, education and awareness.

Our Vision

To be the extended arm of Christ to young widows and widowers — changing today’s struggles and empowering tomorrow’s leaders by helping families deal with the loss of a parent, creating emotional and financial support for the education and wellbeing of their children. For the vulnerable adult, we create a thriving environment of care and wellbeing as they transition through their later years.

Our Aim

Our first assignment is emotional support, counselling and advice. We raise funds to financially support the education and welfare of both children and adults at these vulnerable life stages — hampers through every festive season, sponsorship for business start-ups, and empowerment meetings for the living parent to help rehabilitate them after the loss of a spouse.

We cannot do this alone. Please consider sponsoring one of these precious families — monthly or one-off, as the Lord leads you. To support our outreach, please contact the ministry office.

Operation Wrap a Blessing 2026 — an initiative to bless young widows and widowers with food this Christmas
Christmas Initiative

Operation Wrap a Blessing 2026

This Christmas, let’s show love, put food on the table and bring hope to young widows and widowers. Your gift, no matter the size, helps us provide food packages for the precious families we carry.

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VIP Coaching & Mentoring Platform

Restart You & Win Woman Network

  • Coaching & mentoring for women of all ages
  • Recovery support
  • Pre-marital counselling
Join the Network

Restart You and Win Woman Network is Pastor Ruth Mateola’s VIP platform where she coaches, mentors and helps spiritually birth women into their divine destinies. It is where we teach, train and facilitate ministry development for women of all ages so they can develop their passion and deploy their God-given potential — creating a pathway for tomorrow’s generation and leaving a rich legacy.

We are passionate about the woman’s world and see ourselves as spiritual midwives, helping to birth destinies that will radically impact our world. Our society needs transformational development initiatives, and we make this our focus — embedded in our principles and training approaches so that what is deployed is sustainable and yields great results.

We model integrity and excellence, and create a safe environment that encourages openness and love without judgement. Our network of mentoring teaches principles that help women of all ages discover God, discover themselves and discover their earthly assignment, so they can be passionate, present and purposeful.

Our approach is holistic, capturing every area of a woman’s life — a wholesome woman births a wholesome destiny. We are a birthing centre, equipping you with the tools to come into the fullness of your life assignment. We are passionate about helping women live not an ordinary life but an extraordinary one.

Other Expression · 6-Week Interactive Seminar

Out of the Box Seminar

Have you been toying with an idea in your mind and don’t have a clue how to put it together into a tangible product or service? Do you have a hobby you’re passionate about? Are you ready for the next step? Then this seminar is for you.

It is a 6-week, step-by-step interactive and practical way of going from inception to manifestation.

In this course you will discover how to:

  1. 1 Discover the tangibility of the idea
  2. 2 Find a market for your idea
  3. 3 Develop a Business Plan
  4. 4 Get financial help
  5. 5 Source for resources
  6. 6 Create your winning team
  7. 7 Pilot your product or service
  8. 8 Launch your product or service
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Out of the Box Seminar — a 6-week interactive seminar taking an idea from inception to manifestation